WoW I just realised something great! And moreover, it touches every single one of the fields discussed on the blog!
As I went for a little midnight jogging, it came across my mind as something mostly evident. Unlike what many people seem to think, WINNING IS IN FACT WAY EASIER THAT LOOSING, and that, in every single possible situation. Isn’t that great? Okay, I already hear people saying that they are very good at loosing or that it often takes no effort at all or bla bla bla. NO! I will give them that one single thing: Loosing takes only one thing: Giving up! As long as you do not make the choice of giving away your chances of success by the simple fact of acknowledging your loss, victory is still at your doorstep! And here, understand that I talk of victory as the accomplishment of every single little thing you want to reach.
So, winning takes two things, an open mind and a shitload of rightful motivation. First, the open mind. Stubborn people, which I am probably one of the worst cases, will always have to put twice the efforts to reach their goals. You need to let go, take a breath and look around. There often is an easier path opening up for you and of which you would have never thought at first, take it! By looking around you, you will see those opportunities rising and awaiting only for you to take action.
If we talk of marketing, do not stay in your basement trying to create the best product ever, go out, talk to people and see what they do need. In fact, they’ll probably be glad to tell you!
If we talk of love, same thing. Do not try to create all those incredible special moments you can imagine. Look around, listen and those moments will come to you, then, as you’ll know your loved one better than anyone else, you will (not should or might, it WILL happen) spontaneously add your touch to it, adapt it and, in a smile, make it your magical moment. In fact, it may be that simple smile which will be the key.
One last example of this would be personal happiness. We too often want things unattainable; we think there lays our own happiness. Take a break, look at where you are standing and of all there is offered to you. I promise, if you do look carefully and with an open mind, you’ll find a lot of those! Your happiness is probably way closer that you think!
Segundo, rightful motivation. Of course achievement is easiER than loosing but, it takes efforts, or should I say energy. If you do not put your heart to it, you may not achieve anything. But if you do, than WoW! The best thing with motivation is that it opens doors by itself. Motivation brings confidence and confidence gets people’s attention and support. With it, you will see people joining in your projects and helping you, often freely, because they believe in you! And as they do, you will believe also and then you will start to achieve what you want! But remember, motivation has got to be right and legitimate, otherwise, people won’t follow and you will not be able yourself to put all your guts in something you know to be bad.
And for loosing, I am not saying it is hard. All I am saying is that it is easier not to lose than not to win because YOU can control it, every time. People may try to influence you to think you are done but, as long as you believe in your project, you can still revive it and it can still succeed. However, as soon as you DECIDE to give up on it, all chances are gone. So, the only trick guarantying you to never lose is simply not to choose to do so! Should have thought of it before ein? But here again, giving up on something may not be a real defeat, you may sometimes have to give up on lesser things in order to change your way and to get to achieve more important things, which, when accomplished, is a greater victory!
Finally, as you can see, winning and achieving is not that hard at all, as long as you do believe and invest yourself in something you really do care about, you will get to it. Whatever what you are thinking of while reading this, you will get to achieve if you only choose to do so. I’m telling you, it works simply because I believe it does...